The Version of You That No One Sees

Tai Owoka
November 30, 2025

There’s a version of you that rarely gets acknowledged - the woman who questions herself right after being strong for everyone else.

The woman who overthinks in the quiet of the night, who wonders if she’s doing enough… even while carrying more than she’ll ever admit out loud.

While reading Visualize, one line stayed with me: “Your future self appears when you stop shrinking the one you already are.”

It stopped me.

Because so often, it’s not the dream that feels far away - it’s believing you’re worthy of becoming the woman you imagine.

Self-doubt doesn’t shout.

It sits quietly in your chest,

turning small moments into heavy ones,

making you forget how capable you already are.

You don’t need to become someone else to grow.

You just need to start seeing the woman you already are.

The woman who shows up even when she’s scared.

The woman who keeps going even when she’s tired.

The woman who feels deeply, loves fiercely, and still tries again tomorrow.

So today, pause for a second -

not to analyze, not to judge -

but to recognize yourself.

The real you.

The unseen you.

The quietly brave you.

She deserves belief.

She deserves care.

She deserves space to rise.

With love,

Tai | ZenMomTribe 🤍

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